My name is Manish Udar. This website is my creative endeavour. I have lived, worked and studied in five different countries, namely India, Singapore, New Zealand, Kyrgyzstan, and Russia. I have worked as a faculty member in four different colleges, and have taught in two more, on two different continents, namely Asia and Oceania. I live in Delhi. My main work these days includes research, writing, advocacy for men oppressed by bad laws, and of course, reading. I interact with a number of people from various strata of society on a regular basis. I do this mainly for the furtherance of my major objective, which is the creation of a just nation and world.
Here are some fun facts about my self which I have discovered in the last year. There is something called Myers-Brigg Personality Type. My MB PType is INFP. This is something I share with the man quoted on the homepage of this website, Ray Bradbury. I searched for his p-type and (Yeats') on a hunch that it would be the same as mine, as indeed it turned out to be. Others who have had or have this personality type are Shakespeare, Milton, Blake (another man I admire deeply from my youth), Gogol, Rowling (JK), Kafka, Jesus, Tolkien, Homer, Rousseau, Jennifer Aniston and Lisa Kudrow from Friends, Orwell, Van Gogh, Hans Christian Andersen, Virginia Woolf, Oscar Wilde, Jacqueline Kennedy, Edgar Allan Poe, Kierkegaard, Camus, Aldous Huxley, Helen Keller, Princess Diana, and John Kerry. I think this is distinguished company. I cannot find the Myers Brigg personality type of Dostoevsky (who suffered from epilepsy, as did I until a bit more than fifteen years ago), but I suspect that he belongs in this grouping too.
There is a possiblity that my MBTI p-type might be INTP (or I might be swinging between types), which again is really good in my opinion, as Socrates (another man I admire as much as Blake) belonged to this grouping. (These PTypes are conjectures in more ways than one if I comprehend them well.) Interestingly, a teacher of mine, Captain Prem Jolly Peterson, had named me 'philosopher' when I was in class III in Laxman Public School here in Delhi. I am told that my name also means philosopher, or 'of the mind' in Sanskrit.
The last thing about myself which I am going to write here (and which I have discovered in the last year, though it was not much of a surprise) is that I have an intelligence quotient of 138, which puts me in the category called 'gifted', which is one notch below the highest, the genius category, if I am not mistaken. Again, genius can authentically be measured by achievement only, not paper tests.
In my childhood I used to say to my elders that I would get married to a woman named Saraswati. In a way I am indeed married to Saraswati, although I am single.
I believe that there are more universes of the size of the observable universe in the entire universe than the 80th power of the number of planck spaces that can fit into the observable universe. (A planck space is much smaller than the smallest atom, proton, electron, quark, gluon, or neutrino. There are about one googol planck spaces in a cubic inch.)
If you wish to meet me, read the questions and answers page.
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Tarun 2015-09-12T06:42:07Z
Hi Manish,
Can you please recommend any lawyer; who could do this for me in a right way; as most of the lawyers take advantages of such situations; misguide and do not understand what a person is going through...from them we victims are just clients.
Manish 2015-09-12T08:23:39Z
read the article about how to deal with lawyers
Tarun 2015-09-12T05:00:48Z
Hi Manish,
Thanks a ton for your support.
I am not able to find the sample petition for Supreme court to request for case transfer; would be highly obliged if you could assist me in some sample draft of the same or where do I refer in the same in book.
Please support on Case transfer Sample petition to Supreme court; I would just do the same myself without wasting any more time.
Appreciate all your support and guidance
Looking forward for your support and assistance.
Manish 2015-09-12T05:23:15Z
Contact a lawyer to draft a proper effective transfer petition. I highly doubt your ability to do this by yourself.
Tarun 2015-09-12T03:59:20Z
Hi Manish,
I have the book now; will go through it soon...
A quick advise appreciated;
1) Can I individually file a case transfer petition in supreme court or do I need a lawyer to do so.
2) I have her handwritten statement of confession of her adultery and abortion (with her left and right thumb impression); medical report; some call recordings and recordings of our conversation on the issues; are they sufficient evidence for court.
3) Can a women file complaints against her husband from two different states; to harass for no reason.
Appreciate your response
Manish 2015-09-12T04:47:16Z
You can file a case yourself without any lawyer. Evidence should be presented and let the judge decide. Cases from different states in your case look like pure harassment.
Tarun 2015-09-11T17:26:49Z
Thanks please advise your book name; which would be helpful in the below matter; so that I can purchase.
I have her handwritten statement of confession of her adultery and abortion (with her left and right thumb impression); medical report; some call recordings and recordings of our conversation on the issues; are they sufficient evidence for court.
Can a women file complaints against her husband from two different states; to harass for no reason.
Manish 2015-09-11T17:32:18Z
You can click on the link which is located within every article on this website for the particular book. See the orangish picture above. You can file a petition in the Supreme Court to transfer all cases to one place and to expose the mischievous way of filing cases in various states.
Tarun 2015-09-11T17:08:17Z
Hi Manish,
I am also harassed by 498A/406 and DV Act; Please assist.
1) I got married on 27.04.2004, after more than 2 years of his love affairs at Arya Samaj Temple, New Delhi without any kind of demand of dowry and exchange of any costly articles, as her parents did not agree for the marriage proposal.
2) We both are post graduate. (she was also working before marriage and after marriage aswell). I have the copies of all her education qualification; appointment letters of her jobs and salary slips).
3) I have two minor daughters and both are residing with me age 4yrs and 8 yrs.
4) In the month of Nov 2011 ; I caught and my wife disclosed that she was having an extramarital affair and an abortion since 2006; she gave her confession in written to me and wanted to start a new life and for sake of my children I forget the said incident.
5) I called her parents and my parents and disclosed everything.
6) In March 2012 she left my home and went to her parents as per there plan; and filed a false complaint against me in CAW Cell, New Delhi
7) In May 2012 she called me and said she did a mistake again and wants to came back home. In June 2012 we both went to CAW Cell and she took her complaint back.
8) In Nov. 2013 she demanded for a mutual divorce and an agreement was signed between us; she also took her jewellery back and signed on the mutual divorce agreement with the list of valuables.
9) Dec 2013 she ran away from home with the help of her parents taking everything along. I reported the same to the police (local police station) by calling 100 no. and by giving a complaint.
10) My in-laws stay in Panipat,
11) She lodged FIR against me and my parent dated 13.09.2014 U/S 498A and 406 of IPC at Panipat police station.
12) I took anticipatory bail and in Final report of FIR my parents were not found guilty in the Final FIR Report.
13) And she also filed false cases against me from Solan, Himachal Pradesh as well; with help of her uncle (MAMA) who is an advocate in Solan
List of cases filed by her are below on different dates and from different states;
27-06-2014 125 Cr PC at Solan
19-07-2014 H.P 10 H.M.A at Solan
13-09-2014 498A/406 at Panipat
27-04-2015 12 D.V.Act
14) In the last hearing at Panipat Court, my wife filed an application U/s 319 CRPC for summon my parents aswell.
15) Till date, as the case is under complainant evidence, me or my lawyer has not produced any facts of her adultery and abortion to the court.
16) I have not responded to the cases filled by her in Solan, Himachal Pradesh yet
Me, my daughters age 4 yrs and 8 yrs and my parents are being harassed by her acts.
Please help and assist as what steps should I do.
Please if you could reach me on my email id; I would be comfortable talking to over the phone.
Manish 2015-09-11T17:15:34Z
There is no other option in this situation except to fight the court cases. Pressure can be built if there are some relatives on the wife's side who are willing to try to convince her to leave this path. If you have evidence of her adultery then you have a very strong case. Her mama is trying to destroy her life for reasons best known to himself. Read the article on this website about emotional support during matrimonial litigation. You might wish to read my book on kindle to get tips about drafting a detailed petition.