Introduction
Top of PageIt is fairly common for highly educated men or men with technical qualifications or computer engineers aka techies and their families to get trapped in 498a cases. Many such men go abroad to seek their fortune. They –just like their brethren in India– epitomise the intelligent and educated man who wishes to rise in life through hard work and perseverance in his chosen field; the man who has no room in his life for lying or stealing to make money. It is therefore ironical –and very distressing for any justice loving person– that such men and their parents are accused of trying to get rich quick through the dowry route by the kind of women whose main common aim at the time of choosing such men is to get a comfortable life without hard work.
The usual pattern in NRI and PIO marriages is for the woman –be she India based or foreign based– to come to India on some harmless pretext, or after creating a scene as soon as she realises that this man is not going to be her puppet. When she reaches India, she approaches any unscrupulous lawyer and gets a dowry complaint drafted with a mixture of truths, half-truths, misrepresentations, and outright lies. She makes accusations of dowry torture against her husband, pertaining to the short period when they were together in India. She also adds plenty of masala about the time spent abroad.
There is also a particularly vicious kind of wife, who feels great pleasure in embellishing the vanilla dowry charges with other, wilder accusations. This may also be seen as an evolving trend in the 498a industry (read the note below about the Prince Tuli case). Such a woman may choose a few allegations out of assault, criminal intimidation, causing hurt, unnatural sex, bigamy, cheating, rape, attempted murder, outraging of modesty and domestic violence.
The illogicality of her accusations does not concern her. Sadly, society takes a very lenient view of women making outlandish accusations against the men in their lives. Very commonly it is mentioned in court judgements in India that the charges were dismissed because the judge discovered that the wife made the accusations in a fit of rage. Interestingly, men are quite often given the death penalty for crimes committed in anger. Similarly placed women usually get away scot-free despite the fact that making baseless accusations is a serious crime.
Then she approaches the local police and files the complaint.
The police write to the NRI husband's parents in India. When the NRI husband learns about the complaint, he feels amazed and shocked at the outright lies, and he starts suffering from various fears and anxieties related to his job, his parents, his eligibility to continue travelling freely between countries, and police procedures. Some of the major fears concern being declared a proclaimed offender; a red corner notice being issued by interpol against the husband; being extradited; being able to get bail and to join work in his country of usual residence. Here this writer tries to explore some of these questions –a dissertation which is doomed to be superficial due to restrictions of length to maintain readability. These questions are, in reality, legal themes requiring extensive treatment which can and does span several tomes.
Extradition of Foreign Citizens to India, in Marital Disputes: Is it a possibility?
Top of PageThe short answer is no. If you are a citizen of the country where you are living, then your government has the power to extradite you only in cases where you have committed a crime which is recognised by both countries as a crime. No country other than India considers dowry harassment a crime. A variation to this rule is found in certain countries which never extradite their own citizens, regardless of the charges against them. This of course does not take into account situations where the country which wants the accused starts bombing the country which is sheltering him in his capacity as its citizen.
If the government of India wishes to extradite you from your country for other crimes mentioned in the FIR, then they have to follow a legal procedure in which the local national government has to prove to the local courts that the charges against you are prima facie true. It is a major diplomatic step for the Government of India to mobilise the engagement of lawyers in another country to plead before the local courts essentially on behalf of our sovereign state.
Further, if the result of the court proceedings is negative for the Government of India, then deterioration in diplomatic relations is pretty much inevitable, because our country suffers tremendous loss of face in such a situation. Witness the deterioration in India-Denmark entente due to the rejection of the Danish government petition in the Purulia arms drop accused Kim Davy extradition trial.
Such a risky endeavour will not be undertaken just to bring a man accused of certain marital crimes by his wife, to India. Not even if she accuses him of unnatural sex. Unless there is a media uproar here subsequent to the unnatural sex allegations. Then all bets are off. But you can count on a long long stay in that country before they are forced to send you back, because your free legal aid lawyers will raise at least ten legal points pertaining to Indian, local, and international law, which the government of that country will not be able to counter easily.
(A note on allegations of unnatural sex against husband by wife: This is a very interesting thing which this writer noted in the news recently. A former miss world accused her husband (Prince Tuli) of unnatural sex. The husband is a frequent world traveller, and has a home in at least one other country apart from India. The nature of the allegation is worth examining in a little detail. The allegation pertains to a crime which is covered under a different section of the IPC than rape. Since marital rape is not a crime in India, the Government of India will not extradite any man accused of that crime.
However, an IPC section which covers what is commonly considered to be a crime in India even if committed by a husband against his wife takes care of a number of things. Needless to mention, sexual assault of any variety is considered to be a crime in many countries even if committed by a husband against his wife, and hence extraditable. The complainant wife may be counting on a media scandal, and may have decided to cover the possibility of her husband going offshore to avoid or to prolong proceedings. She may have been advised that the man will be extradited in such a situation, since it is a crime in India as well as in a number of other countries. It is possible that such allegations against husbands may become more common in the future. This allegation, if made against a man resident in India, may be being used as a ruse to take advantage of the anonymity guaranteed by law to sexual assault complainants. The bride will be doing this with a view to avoid social ostracism which will be inevitable consequent to publicised dowry allegations.)
Red Corner Notices and related questions
Top of PageIf you are a foreign citizen living in a country which is not your own country (i.e. a third country) OR planning to arrive in such a country, then that government has the right to extradite you to the country which got the red corner notice issued, but normally will not start extradition proceedings unless there is a red corner notice duly issued by interpol in your name. A red corner notice is a guarantee to instant global notoriety or fame, and rest assured that if the Government of India manages to get one issued for your arrest, then your name will be taken in the same breath as Hafiz Saeed, Ottavio Quattrochi, and Julian Assange.
Letters Rogatory in Marital Disputes
Top of PageA letter rogatory may be organised by your wife against you if she is extremely influential within India, and has made allegations pertaining to her stay with you in your country of residence. This sort of letter is a formal request or a set of requests made by India to that country to prosecute you or to take your deposition or to gather material / evidence against you. Each of these requests made under any particular LR have to be in consonance with Indian procedure, Indian law, commonly accepted international procedure OR procedure as established over time between the two countries, international law, the law of that country, and the procedure of that country in order to cause legal action against you. On top of all this there is the interference and procedural delays of the two foreign ministries of the countries involved. Plus there are all the levels of courts where you can appeal in that country, and all the levels of courts where the Indian government can appeal against your wife's petition in India, if it so desires, and if it is not a co-petitioner with her. An attempt by her to organise an LR in order to hurt you is pretty much a futile exercise except if she wishes to generate publicity against you. Even in that situation she faces the risk of her being laughed out of court, and the subsequent media humiliation.
Extradition of Indian Citizens to India in Marital Disputes
Top of PageIf you are a citizen of India, then the government of India cannot extradite you in situations where it cannot extradite non-citizens. However, it can cancel or revoke your passport and get you sent back home if you are in a country where the government can exert diplomatic pressure. India has the second largest diplomatic corps in the world, and many of them are very professional, with a reputation that matches their skills. However, the Gulshan Kumar / Nadeem Saifi case shows that even Indian citizens may be able to successfully resist extradition. Readers might also be aware that Lalit Modi and Sangeeta Richard (the maid in the Khobragade case in America) have both had their passports cancelled by the Government of India in separate bids to extradite them. Both the actions resulted in varying amounts of bad publicity, with the latter case in particular boomeranging in an exceptionally strong manner on the Khobragade woman –who still cannot make out what hit her, by all accounts.
Proclaimed Offender Status
Top of PageIf an accused person does not come to India, or does not surrender before the court or the police even after getting repeated summonses or warnings to do so, then a competent court may declare such a person a proclaimed offender. Getting proclaimed offender status is a surefire guarantee that such a person will find it impossible to get bail after being caught and arrested if he ever decides to return to India. A red corner notice means that the P.O. is internationally recognised as such.
Deportation of Proclaimed Offenders to India
Top of PageAnother thing that has happened sometimes is that a person has been deported to India by the local authorities on some pretext, without waiting for the local judiciary to scrutinise the extradition request. This writer is not aware of the different ways in which local citizens, citizens of India, and foreigners have been historically treated or classified for the purpose of differential treatment in such situations, although logic and international law dictates that a foreigner should be deported to his own country, not to India.
Lookout Notice/Alert
Top of PageLookout notices or alerts are issued to airports and various points of entry at international borders to arrest a particular person who may or may not be a proclaimed offender upon an attempt to enter or to leave India. Or to not permit a particular person to enter or to leave India. Husbands accused in 498a cases do not normally need to worry about this sort of treatment, unless they refused to come to India for a long time after being accused.
Do not get confused if you see the acronym LOC in the context of lookout notices. It means Look-Out Circular –a circular being the same thing as an internal notice or a memo. This language is used due to the limited circulation of some such notices, which is to say that the notice may not be publicised to the general public in certain cases and may be viewable only by a limited audience.
In Conclusion
Top of PageFurther note that the number of accused persons extradited from the rest of the world to India in the last 10 years –including foreign citizens as well as Indians– is not more than 40 to 50.
Exemption from Personal Appearance in Court Proceedings for NRIs/PIOs
Top of PageAs soon as an NRI gets a notice of a complaint against him u/s 498a/406/34, he should ask his lawyer in India to apply for anticipatory bail, and should get anticipatory or interim bail of a long duration, while continuing to remain in the country where he works. Section 205 of CrPC enables him to do so. Upon getting relief from a competent court, the NRI should fly to India, and execute the bail bond for security in front of a competent officer. Then he should apply for exemption from personal appearance in further proceedings, before a competent court. After getting this relief in full or in part, he can fly back and continue his job. It is also not a bad idea for an NRI/PIO husband to be mentally prepared to face jail for a short time in extreme situations.
adam 2019-12-22T23:13:07Z
life threat and proclaimed offender orders in india.
Hi,manish
My name is adam and i am Indian presently living in new Zealand since one year on partnership workpermit. I have also applied for residency but,in short story i was married in India and in 2015 i have applied for divorce in india against my wife (lives in india on Indian nationality)on the adultery ground because she had extra marital affairs i had audio recordings with me and on that behalf i applied for divorce and that case was never ending story.I got a job in newzealnd and i came here leaving my cases closed.She also did false dawrey case and domestic violence case in India in 2015 right after i applied for divorce in india 2015.In 2018 before coming to newzealnd all cases from my side and her side was dismissed because she never used to come to the court and i left the country.then i came to newzalnd started my life met a girl got one sided divorce from nz law and court.then after one year my partners ex husband and my ex wife from india applied false repeated dawery case and domestic violence again against me.She also called me few months ago from india and gave me life threat of cutting in to pieces if i wont pay her 50 lakhs and few properties in her name.I am a normal job guy cant full fill her wishes so i did a police report in auckland and told immigration also about this.Now as per indian cases i should go back to india and fight these p.o and also they have got my passport impunded orders though my passport is with me only because h.c.i were not able to provide me court orders so i refused to surrender my passport.My question is though i have hired few lawyers for writ in india but court is asking for me to come but i can not go there as my life is in danger my exwife father is a murderer and gangster so is my partners husband in india i very rich and influenced person.I have applied for residency but i am scared becuse i cant fight her false cases of inida while i live in newzealnd.Can i get deported to india with her false f.i.r arrest orders and p.o orders?i dont want to go back to inida my child and my partner is here living in nz and she is permanent resident of newzealand.My wife also sending false infromation to immigration visa officer newzealnd.And immigration is telling me about all these cases in india and my arrest warent information to me.I never got any notice or court orders from high commission of inida in wellington.So this is one sided cases after i left the country.Should i apply for refugee or should i do what?i am little worried i dont want to go back to inida and get killed.Now even police,court and those people are against me in india. How can i safely live here?please guide or any one going though same problem please connect with me my eamil is jpresidecy@gmail.com thanks waiting for the reply.
Rahul Sonawane 2019-11-25T17:29:52Z
Hi Manish, could you please suggest some good lawyer in 498a at bangalore. my case is different. i am coming to the court, and attending all dates, but my so called wife did not attend. so court gave her nbw and nbw with proclamation, then she attended, court asked for evidence stage, and then she did not come for evidence. currently court again have had issued nbw against her but the PP is taking long time. PP asked for bribe and i refused, also i refused settlement. My problem is my writ petition at high court to quash is also pending since last year. my lawyer says that is the way. i am not figuring out a way. more importantly i am planning to travel abroad, without the courts permission. i will fly and then intimate the court, or i will come to attend 2 days by getting non payment of salary. could u please help me
Sonu Qwas 2019-08-11T19:20:24Z
Hi manish my brother wkg from last one year in usa he married a girl last month in india she also wkg in usa after one month .During stay in india she fights with my parents and me also and threaten of police action . After one month when they return to usa she threaten of police and so after few days my brother file divorce case there and after that her father files complaint in india to police of DV AND DOWRY against me,my parents and my brother(husband). She also file complaint to indian embassy in California against my brother . Pl guide what to do in india and usa. My brother wants divorce and free from all these what to do plpl guide
SKB.B 2019-07-09T00:58:37Z
HI Manish,
I am an NRI living in chicago USA. My wife fled in 2016 and filed a false case of 498a and 125 and DV. I send multiple emails and letters to police. Before I could managed to get there to India, police illegally issued an LOC and NBW against me. I have not been able to travel back due to that. Now police is calling my parents and threatening to use section 82/83 and announce me absconder or proclaimed offender. My wife and her parents have quite a bit of influence over police and local judicial system. Sessions court have already rejected my anticipatory bail.I have 2 lawyers who are representing me and are not able to find a solution out of this.
What should I do next to avoid my passport impounding ?
Also what else should I do to fight these LOC/NBW/Proclaimed offender charges?
The judge in 125 case has already awarded 50,000/month maintenance as ex-parte order.
Thanks
Manish 2019-07-10T16:21:52Z
You may consider sticking with a chamber of lawyers where the Munshi of the chamber has been working for many many years continuously, preferably for decades in the same chamber.
SKB.B 2019-07-10T17:21:28Z
Thank you for the response Manish.
A Kumar 2019-04-01T14:34:18Z
Hi Manish, My wife filed filed a false FIR u/s 498a, 323 in Bihar against me & all family members including my brother who is working abroad. Can u pls tell me:
1) Is it necessary for an NRI like my brother to be physically present in India to sign the Vakalatnama for Anticipatory Bail?
2) Can an NRI simply courier a signed vakalatnama to his family in India and proceed with Anticipatory bail through any lawyer of his choice here?
Thank you so much in advance for clarifying on this critical matter!
God Bless You!!
Manish 2019-04-01T19:21:58Z
As far as I am aware there is no compulsory requirement for a vakalatnama in criminal matters. But if there is a vakalatnama then the name of the concerned chamber / firm / advocate has be specifically printed or written on it. It can be scanned and sent by email and signed and physically mailed back. The main thing is that the concerned lawyer should be satisfied that it has been signed by the person who is claiming to have signed it.
Rahul 2018-11-24T04:21:53Z
Hi Manish, I am Australia citizen and got married in india last year. One week after the marriage my wife started creating issues like she packed her bags and tried to run away from honeymoon so i had to cut short our honeymoon and she said will take divorce from me, She verbally abused me too. Then she herself started saying she cant be a housewife and cant do any houshold stuff. Later she started asking/demanding the paper work i have filed for her travel. After spending one month in india , i came back to australia, she stayed with my parents only for 2 weeks and then left our home. i asked her what she wants.but she didnt gave proper response so i blocked her. After staying quiet for 6-7 months, she has now filed a case against me in NCW and they have further referred to Police. Police are saying they will now register case cruelty and desertion and breach of trust , 498 and 406 against me. We discussed with their parents, but girl and their family is not ready to give divorce. Few questions from my side:
1. Can i fight my case from Australia
2. what will happen if i dont go to india
3. what is the best way to tackle my situation.
4. i consulted one lawyer here in Aus and he says to file divorce case from Australia. is it a good option?
Manish 2018-11-24T08:37:52Z
1) You can fight from Australia but you need to have a lawyer fighting your case in India, and read the section titled "Exemption from Personal Appearance in Court Proceedings for NRIs/PIOs" in the article above.
2) If you do not come to India then you will lose all cases filed against you in India.
3) Get anticipatory bail and exemption from personal appearance, then go back to your work city and country and continue to fight your case from there using internet communication with your lawyer.
4) No.
Rahul 2018-11-24T21:33:03Z
Thanks Manish for the answers. Sorry, One more question, cant i apply exemption from personal appearance without having to go to india. Because i am hearing once i land in india, the corrupt people will do whatever or get the bail canceled so that i dont fly back.
Manish 2018-11-25T16:42:03Z
Further, read the news stories at https://www.thehindu.com/ne...
and https://thewire.in/law/nri-...
Manish 2018-11-25T08:27:52Z
As far as I am aware you will need to be present at the time of executing bail bond. Other things you can avoid being present at. Read the article on this website about bail cancellation at https://mehnat.in/bail_canc... to get an idea about that subject.
Rocket man 2018-05-01T15:34:14Z
Hi Manish. I am currently outside India on work visa. Last year my wife filled 498a,406 case against me. I am happy to go and appear in court but coz of my job it's hard for me to leave. Now I have to apply for new visa and I need pcc . What will happen to my pic if I have case pending . Would I be able to get Anticipatory bail while I m outside India. And after bail would I be able to get pcc.
Manish 2018-05-01T17:35:53Z
It is pointless to have an academic discussion about chances of getting bail or PCC. The only way to find out is to try. One thing is sure. If you don't contest the case against you you will ruin your life.
ShivKumar 2018-02-04T03:27:44Z
Hi Manish, I am definitely too late in finding this site. I am also a victim of false 498a. I have been issued with LOC & without knowing that I flew down & am stuck here. We are following it up with Police. alternatively, my lawyer says that he shall file a writ to get me out of LOC. Can you please help me if writ is the right way to approach the high court?
Manish 2018-02-04T07:13:19Z
A writ can only be filed in a high court. If it is admitted for hearing then you will get quick justice. However the best course is to do whatever is suggested by a good lawyer.
498_Pain 2018-02-02T18:36:50Z
HI Manish, i need ur assistance here as well. I am also a prey to a similar case. But i recently got Anticipatory, although Red Corner is still issued on my name. Now they are challenging the bail in high court. I want to fly to india, but was wondering what would happen once i land.
I am not a Indian Citizen anymore. So if i land to the destination city, then how long does it take until they, Immigration police send me to the local police? Whats the procedure here? I got the anticipatory so hopefully i get bailed out straight away...
Would really appreciate ur help here
Manish 2018-02-02T21:38:56Z
Oppose the challenge raised by the opposite party in the concerned HC and after winning there locate the decision on the website of the said HC. Take a print of the order and fly to India. Better still get your lawyer to mail you a certified copy of the said order. Later you can go to concerned police station with your lawyer and sureties and complete the procedure.
Urmila Roy 2018-01-08T04:06:58Z
I am 52 years old and have filed for divorce from my husband in July 2016 after 22 years of marriage. He has repeatedly ignored court summons and orders including a maintenance order passed by the criminal court in connection to my Domestic Violence suit. The civil court had ordered him to submit his passport to the court on 2-3 occasions which he has ignored. The reason for this lack of response on his part is because he is determined not pay any maintenance/exenses for me and my son. He has also been chargesheeted with regard to a Section 498A case against him. He has been working in various countries in the Middle East from 2002 onwards except for the period between May 2016 and July/August 2017 when he was working in our hometown Kolkata. In October 2017 he has gone off to Doha without informing the court or any other authority.
I am a bedridden patient living in my 81-year-old father’s house and am totally dependent on him for all expenses.
Under these circumstances, what can I do to bring him to justice? What are the legal remedies available for me under these circumstances?
Manish 2018-01-08T14:14:43Z
Madam a 22 year marriage should not ideally be a battleground for criminal charges, but if maintenance is honestly demanded then court can order it under section 125 CrPC if wife is facing destitution in the absence of financial support from her husband. It is a sorry spectacle that an elderly man has been chargesheeted, but now the law will take its course and he will have to contest in court if he wishes to come back in the future.
Ranjeet Singh 2017-12-13T04:31:33Z
Hi Friends,
Me and my wife are Australian citizens since March 2017. Also completed 12 years of marriage. Originally we were citizens of India. Now we both have OCI status. Our son is 7 and holds USA passport.
We have been having arguments since a year. 4 weeks ago i left her (In my rested house and am renting a separate/additional room elsewhere)
I am providing her with rent, food expenses, bills, son's fees etc as she does not have a job. she even has my car so she can take my son to school etc.
She is travelling to India for first time after I left the house on 13/12/2017. I have reason to believe that she will file a 489a against me.
In my family i only have my father in India who is living alone and is doing charity work. My sister and I live in Australia and are both citizens of Australia just like my wife.
Now i wanted to clear a few doubts.
1. Can my wife being an Australian file a 498a in India. (i think she can but just asking to be sure. Please forgive my ignorance)
2. How do I safe guard my father as he will be travelling back to India from Australia in Feb after visiting me.
3. In case I am charged with allegations of physical abuse and adultery which I can prove false. What safeguards as per indian regulations should I put in right away.
Appreciate you giving my case a thought. Feel free to give advise or any pitfalls that I should avoid.
Manish 2017-12-13T09:01:51Z
You can take AB and obtain exemption from personal appearance. But best is not to worry until you get news of a case against you. Note that if you want to retain a connection with India then you will have to fight any legal case which may appear.
Mohan Kumar 2017-06-12T03:35:29Z
Hi Sir,
I am an NRI residing in Dubai, May 25th I came on visit for celebrating my Anniversary with my wife, my wife started quralleing with me on my parents visit ( even she aware and not ready to join them) and used foul launguage against me and my family. Now demanding for property registration with my kids name ( her demand started with selling one farm, buying a house with her name n sending her monthly expenses). She has taken my car key for three days and stolen the passport (complete bag including passport and laptop).
Now she is demanding for property registration otherwise threatening to file dowry case against us.
I have tried my best to get my passport from her but she is adamnent and not returning my passport, telling me to lose job and stay here. I have big commitment of my housing loan which I purchased 1.5yrs back..I have spoke to their parents and her brother/sister nothing worked out.
Once nothing worked out I have filed a police complaint for getting my passport, there were three rounds of discussion with SI and Circle inspector still she is adamant to return my passport and asking them to put her in jail. She informed police that i should clear all my dues staying in India and she has filed dowry case against me and my family ( still we have not received any call or FIR) which has to be cleared to return my passport.
I have asked her to travel along with me to clear my dues at Dubai (along with their family to avoid insecurity about her) or return the passport so I can travel and clear my dues and come back ..she is so adamant and didn't agree for any option.
Now I have filed a divorce case as she is not keeping any trust on me or my family and threatening to destroy my family name.
My job is under threat as this is been three weeks, kindly advice if there is any possibility of getting my passport back at the earliest so I can save my job. I am ready to provide any bond on my return to India any time for proceedings.
Thanks
Mohan
Manish 2017-06-12T08:44:12Z
Keep following up with the police for return of your passport. Try to compromise with your wife, maybe you can take her to Dubai with yourself.
Mohan Kumar 2017-06-12T12:48:22Z
Hello sir,
She is so adamnet always use blackmailing as instrument to fulfill her wishes, she tried sucide couple of times. she is demanding for leaving my family and not to see my parents even on their last days. Its hard to compro always to fulfill her wishes. Her parents are also not making understand the situation and change her behaviour. I have two kids which are affected due to this.
She is not ready to return to Dubai.
Thanks
Mohan M H
Manish 2017-06-12T21:32:29Z
Unusual case. Maybe you can try a private detective to find out the real reason.
Mr decent. 2017-05-20T11:04:57Z
Hello sir.. My sister in law filed a false 498a and 406 on my entire family.. All my family members got anticipatory bail except my brother(husband) who lives in gulf.. Its been two months but charge sheet is not yet filed.. Moreover I got a central govt job in bank and I also got offer letter.. But this case is pending.. Please help shall I liable to get this govt job??? Should I mention d facts that 498a is pending or not.. Please guide sir it's a matter of my entire life.. Waiting for ur reply..
Manish 2017-05-20T14:13:53Z
You should make a full disclosure to your prospective employers and let them decide. I am sure that they will give you all consideration.
Mr decent. 2017-05-21T14:18:53Z
Thnks for ur instant response sir... Actually offer letter yet to come.. Within one week I have document verification.. Sir do you know any judgements or citations in which it says dat 498a accused should be appointed... Please sir guide me...
Abc 2017-05-01T07:45:57Z
Hello Sir,
I have case under section 406 filed in court by in laws. The case was filed 2 years back and is in complaint stage. There is no FIR or any charge sheet. Mediation has been referred. I am applying for a business visa for a short foreign trip. The visa form has a question-
"Have you been charged in any country with a criminal offence for which you have not yet been tried in the Court ?"
Should my answer be Yes or No?
Thanks!
Manish 2017-05-01T09:35:29Z
If there is no FIR or chargesheet then the answer is No.
Abc 2017-05-01T14:22:48Z
Thanks Much Sir!
Maggi 2017-03-31T09:13:02Z
Hello Manish, I'm a victim of domestic violence, cheating and fraud by my NRI husband and his Delhi based family. We stayed together for just 15 days post our marriage and he flew to middle east to resume his job. He committed to me that he will arrange my travel within 2 months and requested me to stayback with his family for sometime. However, exactly after 1.5 months of marriage he informed me that he lost the job and cannot arrange my travel. Thus, I resided with his family for another 5 months. I was mentally, physically tortured by his family and was thrown out from his house. My belongings are still in their possession. I was a patient of depression and the treatment was arranged by my maternal family. My husband was contacted by my family and also my medical reports were shared in which doctor mentioned that both - husband and wife - needs a counselling to understand the importance of marriage. But my husband refused to visit and also emailed to my brother that "he and his family can't look after his family as of now because she is residing with you".
Since 5th month I'm residing at my maternal house and resumed my job because my husband and his family didn't give me any financial support from day 1. I tried contacting him till 7th month of our marriage but he kept refusing to talk to me and also claimed that he is jobless for which he wants time and space ti find a job. He kept on telling me that he will talk to me once he has a job but since this call he remained quite and disconnected all our communication. Finally, in the 10th month I approached women cell in the hope they can reconcile our marriage but here also he remained absent. His family was making presence but they refused to provide his current employment status and return my belongings. Finally, Women cell ACP sent a an email to my husband which he acknowledged that he is working from the 8th month of marriage and cannot travel due to his probation period. The case moved for FIR filing under section 498A/406/34. In between I received the divorce petition duly signed by husband in India on the date of marriage (i.e. it was exactly signed within the difference of 10 days of his women cell email acknowledgement). I have contested his petition as it appears forged to us because there are no evidences attached of his travel and income.
Since, my complaint was very generic the police has not played the active role in investigating this matter. Therefore, I had to get the orders issued from the court. Also, I had to file DV and maintenance against my husband and his family.
My queries:
1) What are the implications of being absconding by my husband?
2) How court can direct him and his family to appear for hearings?
3) What were his intentions for this marriage?
4) Why his lawyer not letting him to come to India to join the investigation?
5) Regarding your blog: "Exemption from Personal Appearance in Court Proceedings for NRIs/PIOs" - how long he can avoid visiting to India as its already been 1.5 year of our marriage and since 8 months I'm fighting to get him back for settlement?
Maggi 2017-03-31T06:53:39Z
Hello Manish, I'm a victim of domestic violence, cheating and fraud by my NRI husband and his Delhi based family. We stayed together for just 15 days post our marriage and he flew to middle east to resume his job. He committed to me that he will arrange my travel within 2 months and requested me to stayback with his family for sometime. However, exactly after 1.5 months of marriage he informed me that he lost the job and cannot arrange my travel. Thus, I resided with his family for another 5 months. I was mentally, physically tortured by his family and was thrown out from his house. My belongings are still in their possession. I was a patient of depression and the treatment was arranged by my maternal family. My husband was contacted by my family and also my medical reports were shared in which doctor mentioned that both - husband and wife - needs a counselling to understand the importance of marriage. But my husband refused to visit and also emailed to my brother that "he and his family can't look after his family as of now because she is residing with you".
Since 5th month I'm residing at my maternal house and resumed my job because my husband and his family didn't give me any financial support from day 1. I tried contacting him till 7th month of our marriage but he kept refusing to talk to me and also claimed that he is jobless for which he wants time and space ti find a job. He kept on telling me that he will talk to me once he has a job but since this call he remained quite and disconnected all our communication. Finally, in the 10th month I approached women cell in the hope they can reconcile our marriage but here also he remained absent. His family was making presence but they refused to provide his current employment status and return my belongings. Finally, Women cell ACP sent a an email to my husband which he acknowledged that he is working from the 8th month of marriage and cannot travel due to his probation period. The case moved for FIR filing under section 498A/406/34. In between I received the divorce petition duly signed by husband in India on the date of marriage (i.e. it was exactly signed within the difference of 10 days of his women cell email acknowledgement). I have contested his petition as it appears forged to us because there are no evidences attached of his travel and income.
Since, my complaint was very generic the police has not played the active role in investigating this matter. Therefore, I had to get the orders issued from the court. Also, I had to file DV and maintenance against my husband and his family.
My queries:
1) What are the implications of being absconding by my husband?
2) How court can direct him and his family to appear for hearings?
3) What were his intentions for this marriage?
4) Why his lawyer not letting him to come to India to join the investigation?
5) Regarding your blog: "Exemption from Personal Appearance in Court Proceedings for NRIs/PIOs" - how long he can avoid visiting to India as its already been 1.5 year of our marriage and since 8 months I'm fighting to get him back for settlement?
Shivani 2017-02-27T17:55:08Z
To Respected Sir/Mam,
Myself Shivani Shah wife of Punit Shah. I was married on 17-01-2015 as per Hindu marriage act and completely in formal way in India. My husband is the doing his business in New Jersey as he described to me. (right now what he is doing i really dont know because dont be in contact) I am the victim of his crime (misconduct, fraud). He left me alone without any information. I was waiting for him from last 2 years. Now he is in U.S.(207 ROUTE 46 EAST,
BUDD LAKE,
NEW JERSEY, 07828 USA).
I Request you to please suggest me bring him back to India. I already lodged a simple complaint to take a LEGAL Action against him in nearby Police Station in Anand & Vadodara (Gujarat) under the section 498A,420.
I have tried to complain FIR but nearer police not accepting my FIR because his whole family is out
of India. now what can i do? from 2 years i m living with parents in Vallabh Vidyanagar Gujarat.
Thank you for your precious time and interest and I look forward to hearing from you.
Sincerely,
Shivani
Manish 2017-03-01T11:35:22Z
You may file for divorce and continue your life as before.
puneet 2016-08-11T19:53:14Z
hello manish sir and all who can help !!
i have a question that is related to this discussion but bit different. in my case the girl (canadian PR at time of marriage) marries an indian boy. marriage is all roses for six long years without even a single complaint. the couple comes to india early this years she stays happy for two months and all of a sudden she starts creating tension and throwing tantrums which are failed to be understood. then asks for her documents to go back to canada (now Canadian citizens and boy still PR) then without any warning files complaint of dowry DV and goes back to canada before the summons are served even the boy returns back before summons are served but was in india when complaint was filed now both are living separately..my questions are:
1. will he have to go back to india?
2. can he file for divorce in canada?
Dhruv Patel 2016-06-12T08:41:03Z
Manishji and other members please advise:
Canadian Citizen (me) got married to Indian Citizen girl in India. I came back to Canada and sponsored her to come here. She received her TEMPORARY CONDITIONAL PERMANENT VISA (meaning - if the marriage breakdowns within 2 years after arriving in Canada, she might be deported to India.) Landed in Canada together and lived together for a little over 1 year. I filed for simple divorce in Canada as the relationship was turning very sour due to many differences. She dismissed my claim for divorce by falsely accusing me and my parents (now Canadian Citizen) for Dowry in her Affidavit in Canada. She has no grounds for this accusation against us. The court here will dismiss her claim as I have lots of evidence to prove our innocence. I will submit all the proof to Canada Immigration and she might be deported based on my evidence. Now the questions are?
1) If she goes to India, can my wife or her parents files a case for dowry or any other type of case that women typically use as weapon against me, my family members. Will we be arrested at airport? Will there be a LOC (I think that the term) for us? We are planning to go for my brother’s wedding (also Canadian Citizen) and we don’t know if we will ever be able to go for the wedding and visit India hassle free in future?
2) How will we know here, if she or her parents has filed a case? Can her parents file a case there or she has to present there?
3) If she agrees to settle here and withdraws her allegations (less likely), can I use those signed Settlement Agreement to bring with us when we come to India? With other proofs also bringing with us?
SHE MARRIED ME BECAUSE I AM CANADIAN. SHE WANTS TO LIVE IN CANADA, NOW HER VISA MIGHT BE CANCELLED AS I APPLIED FOR DIVORCE AND TO TAKE REVENGE ON US SHE WILL GO TO ANY LENGTH (E.G. filing a dowry case here in Canada which is completely baseless and not recognized in Canada)
Please reply at your earliest convenicne.
P.S. We are very stressed and not sure how to protect ourselves from false allegations when we visit India.
Manish 2016-06-12T08:46:11Z
No Indian court will set into motion proceedings against findings of a foreign sovereign court pertinent to that particular foreign jurisdiction, particularly if that country is a friendly country.
Dhruv Patel 2016-06-12T08:51:14Z
Meaning? That's the court. What about her or her parents filing a FIR in local police station. Will they come to our place where we will be living in India during our visit. Also can my aunt uncle be accused (they are Indian citizens living in India).
It is almost 5am here in Canada and couldn't sleep for 2 days.
Manish 2016-06-12T10:22:52Z
Visit a neurologist or a psychiatrist and follow his recommendations to get sleep. FIR in CAW cell will be laughable. Let them waste their time. FIR is one thing, arrest is a totally different thing, and conviction is a third different thing. Send a copy of any Canadian court decision to her local police station in Gujarat.
Dhruv Patel 2016-06-13T03:29:54Z
Thank you Manish. You did really really relieved me from stress.
KP GLOBE 2016-06-22T17:01:12Z
Dhruv.. Seems like you and I are going through the same thing..
I am in canada as well and the woman in India.. Lets talk and team up to fight this evil..
More on phone..
KP
Canis Major 2016-06-08T23:01:25Z
What if the NRI failed to do this, and the case has progressed to the stage where the chargesheet has been filed and there is an NBW out for him, for several years.
Can one still apply for an anticipatory bail? And then go to India, surrender at the police station (if lucky to not be arrested at the airport), and then fight the rest of the 498A in the courts?
Manish 2016-06-09T06:52:17Z
Maybe he should start by writing a letter to the police.
SC 2015-11-27T12:06:14Z
Dear Manish,
First, I must thank you for this great & valuable write-up! I am sure a lot of people would have found this information extremely helpful.
I was born and raised in India. I am an Australian National with no OCI (Overseas Citizen of India) card i.e. I have to apply for a tourist visa every time I visit India. Married an Indian woman and got separated recently. Now she is threatening with taking legal action against me.
1. Can an Australian National be forced to appear in Indian Court?
2. If I happen to visit India, can I be charged/taken into custody?
3. Should I refrain from visiting India ? If yes, then for how long ?
Many Thanks,
Vik 2016-05-27T11:28:08Z
Hi SC, I'm on the same boat. I'm in Australia and going through the same issues. Please get in touch if you wish. Vik-k@live.com.au. Cheers Vik
andy 2016-05-09T01:42:49Z
hi sc , i think you are in same boat as me ,, we can communicate with each other ,, to get ideas and views if you want to , my email id is andy3651@yahoo.com
thanks
Manish 2015-11-28T02:59:30Z
Read the article above your questions for all answers.
Dr Rajendra Sharma 2015-11-25T07:55:43Z
Sir anticepatary bail application under 438 was rejected by session Court saying applicant is out of India and according to a judgement 2011 (4) criminal cases Kerala 366 soda bibi v/s inspector of police it was established that AB can not be given while accused is out of India . any views to overcome this ? Please suggest any judgement where this judgement overruled
Dr Rajendra Sharma 2015-11-22T15:35:17Z
Sir anticepatary bail application under 438 was rejected by session Court saying applicant is out of India and according to a judgement 2011 (4) criminal cases Kerala 366 soda bibi v/s inspector of police it was established that AB can not be given while accused is out of India . any views to overcome this ? Please suggest any judgement where this judgement overruled
Manish 2015-11-22T16:10:21Z
Apply in high court.
Kamini Singh 2015-11-20T05:11:43Z
Hello manishji....
I recently got married to an NRI of Australia based...they have their home in india as well...n they showed that they are v.rich n v.good bt after marraige they started harrasing girl for the dowry.i am pregnant too...they anyhow managed to send me back to india that your parents will take care of you properly. ..as I was on tourist visa ....m being fooled by them came bavk to india.after coming back to india...my husband stopped talking or having any interactions with me....plz help me ...how can I file a case against them? Ineed justice n m pregnant as well
alok singh 2015-11-04T19:21:04Z
hi manish ji
thanks for all your updates .
i want to know some thing from you, a uk citizen(male) married with indian girl (working in dubai)
in india in court without any knowledge of his family and friends because he is cut off with the family from long time .after long time punjab police give phone call to his relatives that this girls make a complain against his brother and one relative about that british citizen is disappears and dowry act as well.but british citizens family do not know about him and what he is doing .his family was not happy with his behavear and his attitude so they by cot him long time ago.
please let me know if the indian family is not involed in anything like marriage or any celebration. Even they do not have any idea about that so how they are responsible for a other country citizen who dont have any contact with family and relatives..please tell me how they can come out of this matter,
thanks
alok singh
Manish 2015-11-05T01:07:26Z
They can file a written complaint in their local police station against the SHO of the police station from where the call was made. Police is required in such situations to communicate strictly in writing.
evinayak 2015-04-14T11:32:34Z
thanks for the good write up
1. how can NRI find out IF an FIR is filed on them, even now many states have NOT uploaded all FIR to their websites
2. Also in many cases the PS does NOT filed FIR, they keep the complaint alive for long long time , what should the nRI do
3. could you write a few lines about filing an RTI to get a copy of the complaint or the FIR where
best regards
Manish 2015-04-14T13:44:24Z
There is an article on this site where a typical RTI application is provided. If the police do not upload FIRs this does not mean that individual FIRs do not exist. If a complaint is there then the NRI husband should not sit and watch. He should act.
evinayak 2015-04-15T14:25:27Z
copies of complaints are routinely denied in RTI
copied of FIR also denied in some cases, husband has to go on appeal
do you think appeal and all that is possible for NRI
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I'm NOT trying to contradict or argue, I'm asking a genuine question.... So thanks in adv for all your practical answers
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thanks again for this great site
Vik 2016-05-27T11:35:46Z
I agree. I have asked the SHO to provide me a copy of complaints so that I can advise them the facts. But SHO refused by saying because the complaint is still pending so I'm not entitle to get a copy. I have to go to India for my statements. It's hard to get a FIR copy.
Manish 2016-05-27T12:05:16Z
Complain against the SHO to police vigilance. Copy to CIC and chief justice of local high court.
evinayak 2015-04-14T11:28:32Z
Good one.... you forgot to conclude by saying that FOR every NRI who has got suckered into such a bad 498A marriage, there are 10 more who are eagerly waiting to come to India and get married !!!! (call it fate , call it whatever, that IS the truth !!)
Roseleen Joshua 2015-01-03T10:22:36Z
i need your help in my case
SAYYAD 2017-10-04T12:10:55Z
HI